Ahhh help im 14 and pregnant next months my quince what do i do???

OKAY WELL HERES THE DEAL IM 14 AND 5 MONTHS AGO I DECIDED TO STAY AT A HOTEL WITH MY BOYFRIEND WE DECIDED TO HAVE SEX BUT THE POINT IS HE DIDNT HAVE A CONDOM SO WE DIDNT USE ONE WELL IM PREGNANT WITH A LIL BABY BOY AND NEXT MONTHS MY QUINCE WHAT DO I DO??? IM NOT GONNA HAVE AN ABORTION CUZ I WILL REGRET ALL MY LIFE FOE KILLING MY LIL BABY BOY!!!!! AND MY BOYFRIENDS GOING CRAZZZZZY BUYING EVERYTHING FOR THIS BABY IN MY STOMACH!!!!! NOBODY CAN TELL IM PREGNANT UNLESS I TELL U CUZ MY STOMACH IS SOOOOOOO LITTLE BUT I GOT SONOGRAMS TODAY :) I JUST NEED HELP!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

Ahhh help im 14 and pregnant next months my quince what do i do???
It sounds to me like you have a lot on your plate right now. First off you need to find someone you can sit down and talk too. I would highly recommend your parents, however if you feel at this point that you can't, A school councilor or one available at planned parenthood might help you. It's very clear that you don't want to have an abortion and planned parenthood provides, support and prenatal care.





You have some hard life decisions and changes up ahead and you really need to work through them before the baby comes and you suddenly find yourself faced with the responsibility of raising a child. Most communities have services available to help you, find them and use them.





My best advice though, is again to talk with your family they might be upset at first but you might be surprised at the support they're willing to offer you.





As for your quince I think that right now your priority should be your baby and not a party.





Best of luck to you in the future.
Reply:You need to tell your Mom and Dad. Instead of a quince you need to have a baby shower, since you decide on keeping the baby. That's nice that your boyfriend is buying stuff for the baby, but you are so very young and will need help from your parents.
Reply:tell your parents you're pregnant you must, allow the truth to be revealed, before it is too late
Reply:Talk to your parents


Tell your bf to get a job


Take prenatal vitimins


Eat healthy


Drink lots of water
Reply:talk to your parents.


although they will most likely be upset that you had intercourse, make it clear you wanted to be responsible by coming to them about it.
Reply:well, if your boyfriend has all this money, then he must be pretty much older than you, which means he is going to jail, when your parents find out, and eventually soon they will, so your better off telling them now.
Reply:Where do you live? It is good the boyfriend is happy and helping you at this point. I hope it stays that way for your sake, and the sake of the baby. I don't know what to say about your age. I am so sorry that you have to go throught this now.
Reply:Talk to your parents, go to confession and pray to God for such adultery, and thank your boyfriend for being so loyal to you instead of deserting you. Take care of your child and only get abortion if your child would die in life and painfully.
Reply:Talk to your parents........... You NEVER HAVE SEX WITHOUT PROTECTION.
Reply:WOW THANKS FOR THE HEADS UP TELL ME WHY ME AND MY BOYFRIEND WHERE GOIN TO STAY AT A HOTEL TO DO US..WOW THANKS I READ THIS QUESTION CAUSE WOULDNT WANT THAT TO HAPPEN TO ME..EVEN THOUGH YEA IT WILL BE A GOOD WAY TO GET MY PARENTS TO LIKE HIM LIKE IT OR NO BUT ANYWAYS...











UMM I THINK U SHOULD JUST TELL UR PARENTS THAT U R AND THEY CANT TELL U TO ABORT CAUSE U CANT CUZ U 5 MINTHS AND NOW THAT U R THEY CANT GO BACK IN TIME TO CHANGE IT BUT THE BEST THING IS TO TELL THEM....SORRY AND CONGRATS%26lt;GOOD LUCK%26gt;
Reply:well, its too late now. You're bringing a chils into this world. Why do you need us to tell you what to do-you were obviously grown up enough to decide to have sex without a condom, so whats the quandary? Babies are consequences of bad decisions-grow up-you will have to in 4 months. If no one knows besides your friends, you better tell them. I guess you better let somebody know they might have to let your dress out a bit.
Reply:TALK TO YOUR PARENTS!!
Reply:whore must i say damn where was your parents to damn dumb to be there and watch there sluty daughter give her life up his stupid *** needs to go to jail for good you are a damn child what is yah young *** kids problems with having sex stop fuc*ing your lifes up and get real give that poor child to someone oh has some damn since slut
Reply:bind ya tummy like the JAPS do and probably no one will notice... you were so darn dumb....
Reply:The truth will come out eventually so you might as well tell your parents now. Be prepared for a long journey ahead, and I hope you learn that next time, he should use a condom.
Reply:Your baby is more important than anything else! You can't keep this a secret forever. You have to be strong, and tell your parent(s). They will know sooner or later. It won't be easy, but after that you can concentrate on the baby and not on how to hide it from everyone. If you can't keep him, there are many loving people out there who can't have a baby, and you can find someone to adopt him. Now you have to think like a grown up, ok? Think of what is good for him, not for you (right now). If you can't tell your parents, you can contact organizations, who will give you advice, like Planned Parenthood 1-800-230-PLAN. Sweetie, you have to be strong, but know that there are many people out there, who will be happy to help! I am one of them. You can e-mail me. I am a 34 old woman. You'll be OK.
Reply:why are you having sex at the age of 14?? thats pretty sick- i'm having a girl and i know that she wont be having sex at your age... did your parents ever talk to you about anything??
Reply:First, I applaud your decision to let your child be born, you won't regret that.





Second, alright...so...what's your question?





If it's just "I need help," you could talk to your parents, or a local free pregnancy clinic in your area.





Good luck.
Reply:You do not need to be worrying about your quince.





Talk to your parents immediately.
Reply:The first thing you need to do is to talk to your parents and let them know what is going on. It is good that you are going to doctors but you should be honest with your famil because they deserve to go. Instead of having your quincerea maybe your family will use the funds to help you to raise your child instead. It is going to be hard but you can do it. I have friends that had children at 14 and 15 and they did just fine. Keep your head up and pray about it.
Reply:you need to talk to your parents
Reply:How can you get a sonogram without your parents knowing. And why not just suprise everyone when your quienceanera dress doesn't fit over your stomache. Sounds like a hell of a party to me
Reply:Obviously if her parents gave a s|-|iT she wouldnt be in this predicament right now. They would first know she was hanging out somewhere with someone OLD enough to rent a hotel and also someone who has money to BUY baby items. He deserves to go to jail and be registered as an offender and she needs to tell some relative other than her parents.





I dont support abortion but I hate it for that kid. Anyone supporting this situation makes me feel like what in the world is going on. How do you get a sonagram without your parents??? whos funding this.. is this a hoax or what?